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The tips on this site are probably the most effective and useful dating tips secrets you can read ANYWHERE in the web!! We Give  you Free advise that David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating charges $19.00 for!! Some of the advices are easy, some of them are harder, but all of them are highly interesting. Whatever you read here, there are always women who are different. You COULD find women who love bald, fat, dirty, long-bearded criminals. But we can safely assume that most of the women will appreciate most of the advice we give here. Thanks for coming by and enjoy the read!!   

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Your First and Most Important Dating Tip Is Smile:)    

Smile :-)Women are smile-addicts:). A few well-placed smiles, a happy attitude, some (non-erotic!) jokes here and there and you can win a woman's heart faster than a handsome tall guy, who is grumpy.

girl smileOne reason why women react so positively to smiling and humor is probably that it shows that the man is not dangerous. It could very well be that many women want strong men, but, at the same time, are afraid of them. Smiling and being friendly compensates this fear.

Another reason could be that smiling shows you are healthy. OK, this is not 100% true, but usually ill persons don't smile, do they?

In this sense: Look like you are enjoying yourself whatever you do! Nice Smiles :)

No Hunchback

Stand straight and sit up. It shows that you are strong, well trained and not ill. And it will make you taller.

Shaved Face

Many women love shaved faces. I wouldn't say that ALL women love shaved men (especially if you live in a country where a beard/moustache is common) but it's safer to be shaved than unshaved. 

Moreover many women have bisexual tendencies (or at least consider other female faces as beautiful), thus a soft face may be considered as "pretty".

Deep Voice

Use a deep voice. If your voice cracks sometimes (= uses high tones) then you need to train to keep it low. A high tone or cracking voice sounds immature and adolescent. 

Don't sweat, don't smell

Use deodorants. Under normal circumstances most women hate sweat odor. Hate it.

I am not even talking about using perfumes. Perfumes can be used ADDITIONALLY. I am talking about non-smelling, which is more important than good-smelling.

And *cough* pick-up lines as "I am stinking. Please wash me!" are wrong.

Marginal note: You cannot worsen things by non-smelling, you can however worsen things by perfumes (if you use the same/similar perfume her former boy-friend used). Please also read Different aftershaves.

Taboo subjects

The reason of talking to a girl is to establish a relaxed atmosphere and to be friendly. Thus don't get involved into highly arguable subjects such as "Why death penalties for minors should be allowed" or "Why Greenpeace is doing more harm than good" or "Christmas has been invented by Satan, the Lord of hells" or something of that sort. Keep the affinity high and avoid "field mines".

Moreover the No Sex Talks rule applies and that's why you shouldn't even mention words like "feminism" or "herpes" or "Islam" or "hemorrhoids". Talking about "Why feminism is causing cellulite" OR "It's a pity that there is no cure against hemorrhoids" OR the pick up line "Want some free breast cancer inspection?" is plain WRONG.

Show tolerance, be easy

You should show a tolerant and open-minded attitude towards many subjects. Imagine the following sentences:

A: "All bugga-huggawoks always make trouble. I hate them"
B: "Bugga-huggawoks are often difficult. Some of them are OK though".

Now, whatever bugga-huggawoks are, sentence B seems to be more reasonable. If you start sentences like A and insist that there are no exceptions and get angry then

bulletyou involve yourself in an uneasy talk
bulletyou show intolerant temper
bulletyou show extreme attitudes ("all", "always","hate")
bulletyou show that you have less knowledge than someone who says sentence B (because he knows good bugga-huggawoks and you don't)
bulletyou show that you have little experience, since there are always exceptions, but you never encountered them
bulletsince you have little experience you are a prejudiced hater ("I hate them")
bulletyou don't admit that you are wrong most probably
bulletyou show sarcasm and negativity and that tells that you are probably on the losing side of life (see Don't symbolize a loser)

ANYTHING that can cause YOU a bad mood or HER a bad mood should be avoided (unless you are self-confident enough to make her smile again). Please also read Smile and Don't be a Crybaby.

Maybe the only exception (where you actually CAN say that you hate something) are "spiders". Women usually hate spiders/bugs/midges/... too. But don't forget to add "I usually kill them whenever I see them" to become her hero :-)

Moreover, don't start fights. Fights are something you do not want to have in a human-human relationship. Fights have winners and losers. But you shouldn't want to make your partner lose. Nor your partner you. Do some "peaceful negotiating" where everybody wins instead.

Say her Name

Get her first name. Say: "Hello, I am John" and then she will most probably tell you her name out of politeness. Use her name thruout the talks with her. This alone creates a more intimate atmosphere.

Don't be drunk

For women who want to make the first step and are incredibly shy a drunk man may be welcome. But for most women a drunk man is a no-go. The alcohol stench and the slavering is usually UNWANTED. Moreover you may also get a bad fame. 

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Be judgmental With Girls

When interacting with a woman, appreciate her, but also judge her. It may seem counterintuitive, but being judgmental is good. It lets her know that you have other options and that you have high standards.

And because it's a "daddy" thing to be judgmental, it makes her respect you and feel more secure.

It's a fact that women love confidence. But how can a guy gain this confidence and convey it to women?

The frame that works best for attracting women can be summed up in three words: It's Always On.

To really be successful with women, you must be so confident that anything she says or does is proof that she is attracted to you.

So how can you take on this powerful attitude for yourself?

Here are some techniques that you can use to become a more confident guy:

Become "principle centered" instead of validation centered

If you come from a place of honesty, trust, respect, integrity, and loyalty, you will always be confident because you will always know you are doing the right thing.

Take control of your shyness by deciding in advance to deliberately be shy when you go out. This gives you a sense of control over the emotion. You'll find that the next time you go out, you will be able to control the emotion and feel more confident.

girl braEarn confidence through self-knowledge

When you truly understand yourself and what you want out of life, and know exactly who you are, it is a huge source of confidence. What is your mission in life?

Warning Girls that wear tops like the one on the left might just be too much for your brain to handle be warned!

Be cool always

People become "cool" when they no longer fear other people's disapproval, or, said another way, when you are no longer seeking other people's approval.

Find your own path in life and stick to it. Do what's right for you, no matter what anyone else has to say.

Do women really like sex as much as men?

One thing that (for some strange sociological reason) is often hard for guys to accept is that women love sex as much as men do. Maybe even more.

If you don't believe me, take a look at the cover of any popular women's magazine... or pick up a romance novel and turn to ANY chapter.

Just like you, women think about sex all of the time.

Sex is the fabric of life between a man and a woman. It's a beautiful and natural thing... and it's important to become comfortable with it if you really want to achieve success with women.

Get used to the fact that woman are highly sexual creatures.

Why do you recommend that guys focus on getting e-mail addresses instead of phone numbers from women?

Because it's a lot easier. Women aren't as resistant to it; they respond to it better, and you're about twice as likely to hear back when you e-mail than when you call.
Again, there are all kinds of reasons for it.
How about the idea of getting her e-mail address within a few minutes of meeting her instead of going for "closes" and trying to take women home the night you meet them?
Why do I suggest that?
Wouldn't it make more sense to get her more interested in you on the spot? And strike up an interesting conversation to prove what a great guy you are?
Well, sure.
If you're the mac daddy of all time, then it's a great idea. But if you're a regular guy, it's probably not a good idea at all.
You see, if I go out on a Friday night with some friends, and we go to a couple of bars, there are a few interesting dynamics that are probably going on.

Women who are out are usually with friends. Friends don't like to have their friend taken away from them so you can muck on her.

 Unless you're a pro, the chances that you're going to make a better impression by talking longer in a bar or other busy public settings are slim. There are a lot of distractions and a lot of other guys around who want your gal's attention (i.e. competition wastes time). If you talk to one woman all night, you may or may not wind up dating her later. In my experience, due to the reasons above, your chances get worse the longer you talk. It is much better to get an e-mail address (and number) from a woman within a few minutes, then move on and get another, and another. I know a lot of guys who go out and get three to five e-mails and numbers a night (some get a lot more). Then you have a bunch of prospects to follow up with during the week.

girl in roomWhat kind of place do you like to take a woman when you get together with her for the first time?

You have three different choices when you decide to get together with a woman:

1. Go into a situation that she is familiar with and you are not, such as meeting her at one of her hangouts when she is out with friends.

2. Take her into a situation that both of you are unfamiliar with, such as dinner at a new place where both of you haven't eaten before.

3. Take her into a situation that you are very familiar with, such as out with you and your friends at one of your "spots." Out of these three options, the third is by far the best.

By taking her into your reality, you are letting her in on a piece of your life. She'll get to see what you like to do and what your friends are like, plus you'll be giving her the benefit of a new experience in a place where you are comfortable, relaxed, and at your best.

Bring a woman into your reality and she is guaranteed to see you as a great guy who can enrich her life, and that is what all women are really looking for.

How can a guy expand his social network and increase his chances of meeting women?

I recommend taking up new activities to meet some interesting people.

The great thing here is that you already have something in common with them, and it's something fun and exciting. 

How this will have a positive influence on your life, when to get physical with a woman, and how to boost your confidence...

How many days should a guy wait to call a woman?

I think that this is one of the funniest questions I hear on a regular basis. I mean, haven't you watched Swingers?

My rule of thumb is to wait at least one day, but not more than a few. The real key is how often you call her and, more importantly, what you say when you call.

But let's talk about the psychology of why women give out their phone numbers, and why I personally like to get e-mail addresses.

You must remember that beautiful women are being approached all the time by men, in one way or another. They have an unlimited supply of guys to choose from.

I think that a lot of women who give out their numbers, then respond by being flaky when you call, are doing something that many of us guys wouldn't have thought of in a million years:

I think they're making themselves feel good.

Explained differently, I think that many women who give out their numbers are looking for the self-image-boosting hit of power that comes from having a lot of men calling them -- men that they have the power to accept or reject.

They can also use it to get attention from friends: "All these guys just keep calling me! Why don't they just leave me alone? Don't they get the hint?"

Now, don't get me wrong. I know that this sounds a little bit negative, and I don't mean to say that all women do this, or that all women are bad, etc.

To me, it's just part of the real world that you need to learn to accept and deal with, which leads me to why I get e-mail addresses.

How can a guy with a "boring" lifestyle become more attractive to women?

The single most important thing you can do in your life -- both for yourself and when it comes to attracting women -- is to become an interesting guy.

The easiest way to do this is to "err on the side of action." What that means is to take advantage of every opportunity that comes your way.

If you come to a fork in the road, take it. If you are deciding whether or not to take a trip, go! Deciding whether to eat somewhere new or go to your same old favorite spot? Try something new!

The more you do this, the more you will enrich your life with experiences... and gain wisdom and knowledge that will make women want to know more about you.

And the more experiences you have, the more interesting things you will have to talk about with women... and the more likely you will be to relate to something they have done.

For example, when she says, "That reminds me of a place in Europe," you can say, "Oh yeah... I know what you mean."

When she tells you she loves Greek food, you can tell her about that wonderful little place you discovered that day when you decided to drive past your favorite spot and find something new.

Remember; we never regret the things we do -- only the things we haven't done. Start to live this every single day, and you'll be amazed at just how quickly women notice.

You've mentioned in the past that a man needs to be a "leader" when he is with a woman in order to create attraction. How important is this?

Well, think about it this way: Women hate to make decisions.

You know how they say that women constantly change their minds about everything? Well, it's absolutely true.

Women can make decisions, but they don't like to -- which is exactly why women love a man who is decisive.

Let women talk and help

Women love to talk (just think of how long they talk on the telephone). Women like to help (just think of a typical "female" job: nurse, kindergarten teacher, geriatric nurse...). Combine those attributes and you got a talk up and running by asking the woman: "Could I ask you for help? Could you tell me why/what/how/...". Ask her any question you like as long as the question is non-answerable by a simple "Yes" or "No".

Believe it or not, but maybe you have failed in your last dating attempt because you maneuvered yourself into dead-end answers. If you ask a girl "Have you been long here?" then practically anything she can answer is a dead end.  She could answer "No, not long" or "A couple of minutes" but both answers do not lead into a nice conversational flow.

Many men (since men are practical-minded) want a "clear and simple" answer. For dating purposes that kind of "questioning strategy" is absolutely wrong.
Train by simply re-phrasing some of your question. Wrong: "Do you like this place?", right: "What do you think about this place?". You get the idea. In other words: Let her TALK. (This is just a simple example and I am not telling you to ask women that question).

Or ask her something like: "What do you think is the most common flaw men have?" or "I am writing for dating-forum.com. Could you help me by telling me what feature your ideal man should have?". Let her talk for hours.

Typical "open questions" start with

bulletWhy....?
bulletHow....?
bulletWhat....?
bulletWhere/When.....?

You get the idea.

What your Outfit symbolizes to a Woman

Combine Shaved face + Dress nicely + No hunchback and the woman sees in you

bulleta man who is self-confident
bulleta man who takes care of himself
bulleta man who looks good (shaved, clean, non-smelling)

These are features women LOVE to see in a man. Even if they themselves run around shabby you WILL make an impression.

In other words: These are things you could apply immediately (today!) without much hassle or money.

Don't be too polite

Times changed. Opening every door for a woman is inappropriate. It can make them think that you treat them as helpless little girls.

Moreover be careful: If you meet a woman who expects you to behave with these outdated "good manners" she can be fond of exploitation: You do everything for her, you pay everything for her and everything she does for you is soooo valuable. 

Use Business cards

You should have business cards with your contact information. Try fancy cards or simple cards, but at least you can give her something to remember you. Maybe you can use a business card with your face on it.

Don't stare, don't stalk

If you see a woman you want to make the first contact with then don't stare and don't follow her around corners. Eye contact is very good and important as long as you don't behave as a pervert staring at her body only. Don't scare the girls off by being a creepy guy watching them from behind a corner!

Oh, and by the way: Telling a girl on a first date "I love you" or "You are my dream girl" is so ridiculous that you can easily be interpreted as potential prospective stalker.

Women thru out all countries and ethnical groups LOVE men who can dance. If there are some steady rules of attraction on planet Earth then it is "happy attitude" and "dancing".

Have you recognized how even "stupid" boy-groups make young girls crazy? Or Michael Jackson? Did you ever see such an effect on males with girl-groups or Janet Jackson?

If you can dance and women see what a flexible body you have then you are already melting them. Maybe it is a glimpse of how flexible you are during sex. But who knows?

However there's a drawback: BAD dancing can be one of the worst turn offs. So it's a dangerous game.

Conversation suggestions

Here are some suggestions how you can keep the conversation starting/going:

bulletSay "Hi" and smile at her (pretty simple, isn't it?)
bulletAsk her for the time, the date, the time the bus comes etc.
bulletComment on her. Examples can be to make a note about clothes she wears or to compare her with a movie star. That shows that it's not the standard "Can I stand you a beer?"-talk
bulletCompliment her. See Make compliments.
bulletFollow up by asking her a question like: "Is there any secret behind your shiny hair?". This keeps the conversation going.
bulletTalk about food (e.g. when you meet her in a restaurant/coffee shop). This gets the senses going and creates a "stimulated" atmosphere.

In the end, it's up to you and the kind of woman you talk to.

Make Compliments

Woman have a deep fear that they are ugly. Just think of how women buy ANY cosmetic product on the market. Just think of all the make-up they have in their handbags. I was once in Hong Kong (China) and the owner of a fruit juice shop told me: "Men will never drink unsavory juices. They only drink sweet juices. But many women will drink them as soon as you tell them that it makes them prettier."

In fact this desire in women to look attractive is so strong that women in Afghanistan (although the Taleban introduced the death penalty for using make-up) still colored their eyes/lips secretly.

Thus:

bulletWomen love compliments. It eases the fear of being rejected because of her outlook.
bulletMoreover: If you compliment her she feels confirmed that somebody actually noticed her outfit and comments on it rather than the notorious "Can I stand you a beer" teaser.
bulletYou can make compliments on anything you notice: Her skin, her hair, her clothes...

BUT: Don't make a great deal about it. Don't start to write poems and name flowers after her. Because the No sex talks rule and the The irresistible Resistible rule still apply: You can make a "casual" compliment (as if it just slipped into your mind) and then continue to talk about something else.

sexy chat is easy 

So should a guy make an effort to learn "pickup lines," or does that stuff not really work when it comes to meeting women?

Many guys put too much emphasis on learning "lines" and "techniques" when they are first starting down the path to success with women.
Lines and techniques can be helpful when you're first starting out... and some of them work pretty damn well!
But the truth is you won't achieve the massive success you desire until it comes from inside of you.
I've begun to see a pattern that almost all guys go through when learning this stuff:

Stage 1: Uses the lines and techniques he learns to "get out there" and get started. Experiences some success, and learns a lot.
Stage 2: Internalizes the right attitudes and beliefs, and starts to experience "natural success." Uses lines every once in a while, but doesn't rely on them.
Stage 3: Learns to attract women naturally and effortlessly. Makes up his own lines and techniques as he goes.

Keep this in mind, and use the lines and techniques you learn as "training wheels" to help take you to where you want to be… but make your ultimate goal to become a guy who "naturally" attracts women.

What's the right attitude to have when you are meeting a woman?

You should be totally detached from the "outcome" of any situation with a woman.
What that means is that no matter what she says or does, your life goes on the same way.
If a woman rejects you, it is no big deal.
If a woman goes home with you, it is also no big deal.
Try to become the guy who doesn't care either way. This attitude of indifference is magnetically attractive to women.
They can sense it the moment they start talking to a man.
But this isn't a way you can "act" or something you can say. It has to come from inside of you.
Make it a point to avoid the "scarcity" way of thinking at all costs.
Stay committed to your overall goal of success with women, but don't worry about success with any one woman.
There will always be another. Always.
Find out how to get inside a woman's head and how your circle of friends affects your pickup success rate...

Any thoughts on how guys can deal better with rejection?

It's been proven that one of the biggest causes of unhappiness occurs when people take things personally that they shouldn't.

This can happen when a restaurant messes up your order, when a place you really want to go to is closed on that particular day, or when a woman rejects your attempt to start a conversation with her.

None of these things are personal attacks on you. So instead of letting them affect your self-esteem, give yourself credit where credit is due.

If you approach a woman and she doesn't want to talk to you, give yourself credit for trying.

You don't know what's going on in her life -- she could have a boyfriend, or just be having a bad day. Either way, it's not you.

Pat yourself on the back, and move on.

What would you say is the key to attracting high-quality women?

To attract a high-quality woman, a man needs to build a high-quality life for himself.

Sometimes this is hard for a lonely guy to understand. As a man, it's almost natural to feel as though a great woman will be the answer to all of your problems.

But here's the ironic part... Although this might seem true, the fact is that the feeling of needing a woman to solve all of your problems creates problems with every woman you meet.

This week's Q&A focuses on men who are natural pickup artists, just being yourself with women, why women are attracted to jocks, and how to read body language like a pro. David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women, has your answers.

Why is it that some men are just "naturals" at attracting women?

While I do know some men who are no doubt "naturals" when it comes to attracting women, I also know a lot of guys who are considered by most to be naturals but who actually made themselves so by cultivating the qualities inside themselves that are attractive to women.

Yes, you read that right. Naturals can be created. And you can do it.

We all have to learn how to socialize, deal with women and make the most of our lives.

So start by doing all you can to make yourself great in your own eyes...

That might mean working out and eating right, learning to play an instrument or learning a second language, taking a trip to a foreign country, or working with a charity to do some good in the world.

When you do these things, women will notice. And as you take the steps to make your life great and improve yourself as a person, you'll start to notice that your life -- and especially your dating life -- is exponentially better and more fulfilling.

You always hear women say "just be yourself" when asked about what a guy should do to attract them. Well, what if "yourself" isn't that attractive to women?

The phrase "be yourself" could easily be called the "universal" dating advice for men.

But what does this really mean?

What a woman wants is for you to be your real self… the person you are around your family and your buddies.

Here's an example:

When you were a kid, playing a game with friends and your mom would yell, "Come home for dinner," of course you would say, "I'm almost done with the game mom. I'll be there when I'm finished!"

But then when you grow up and an attractive woman says, "Go to the bar and get me a drink," you say, "Right away dear!"

Any tips for creating attraction with a woman when you are out together for the first time?

A very simple way to let your woman know that she is in the hands of a real man is to be chivalrous when you are out on the town.

Open doors for her, and always be sure to walk on the outside of the curb.

If some shady people cross your path, position yourself between them and her. This is all simple stuff, but you'd be surprised how many men forget it completely.

But this is, of course, good news for you. Because guys who do remember this stuff and practice it are handsomely rewarded.

Should a guy "make a move" the first time he is out with a woman?

Did you know that women hate when a guy they are attracted to doesn't make a move?

Yes, in some cases, you can use this to build anticipation and make her want you more, but eventually you must take the initiative and make something happen.

When a woman is really into a guy and he doesn't try to sleep with her, it makes her feel less attractive.

She also worries that you might not have the confidence to make a move, which makes you look less attractive.

Combine these two things together and the result is not good.

Remember this: She is not going to do it for you.

Alex put it very well when he said, "If you take off a woman's pants, she feels sexy, but if she has to take off her own pants, she feels like a slut."

Which option do you think a woman prefers?

Now, just because you make a move does not mean she's going to give in and sleep with you on the first night.

But she definitely wants you to try.

So don't let her down. Don't be a wuss. Make a move!

I'm thinking of taking a woman on a date. Any recommendations?

Think "emotionally stirring" and maybe even "dangerous." Roller coasters are great.

Something physical where you are the expert is also a great move. Do you like to rollerblade or ride a bike? Perfect.

Think about the unpredictability, danger and excitement that women love about "bad boys" -- these are great ways to give her the same feelings and emotions without being a jerk yourself.

Remember: It's not the "bad" that she likes; it's those qualities that coincidentally tend to go with so many bad boys that give her the feelings of excitement.

They say that women are attracted to guys that remind them of their "daddy." Is there any truth to this?

If your gonna pic up girls this hot you gotta be a pimp and a player there's no doubt about it!

Well, what's more important are the qualities that "daddy" represents. A woman loves to be treated like she's a little girl.

Women want men who are stronger than they are. They also want a man who can take care of them, but not necessarily financially.

She also wants to feel that he is not dependent on her in any way.

When a woman is with this kind of man, it makes her feel secure and taken care of. And that leads to massive attraction.

Cultivate these three great "daddy" characteristics to make her melt:

1. Be judgmental

When interacting with a woman, appreciate her, but also judge her. It may seem counterintuitive, but being judgmental is good. It lets her know that you have other options and that you have high standards.

And because it's a "daddy" thing to be judgmental, it makes her respect you and feel more secure.
So should a guy make an effort to learn "pickup lines," or does that stuff not really work when it comes to meeting women?

Many guys put too much emphasis on learning "lines" and "techniques" when they are first starting down the path to success with women.

Lines and techniques can be helpful when you're first starting out... and some of them work pretty damn well!

But the truth is you won't achieve the massive success you desire until it comes from inside of you.

I've begun to see a pattern that almost all guys go through when learning this stuff:

Stage 1: Uses the lines and techniques he learns to "get out there" and get started. Experiences some success, and learns a lot.

Stage 2: Internalizes the right attitudes and beliefs, and starts to experience "natural success." Uses lines every once in a while, but doesn't rely on them.

Stage 3: Learns to attract women naturally and effortlessly. Makes up his own lines and techniques as he goes.

Keep this in mind, and use the lines and techniques you learn as "training wheels" to help take you to where you want to be… but make your ultimate goal to become a guy who "naturally" attracts women.

What's the right attitude to have when you are meeting a woman?

You should be totally detached from the "outcome" of any situation with a woman.

What that means is that no matter what she says or does, your life goes on the same way.

If a woman rejects you, it is no big deal.

If a woman goes home with you, it is also no big deal.

Try to become the guy who doesn't care either way. This attitude of indifference is magnetically attractive to women.

They can sense it the moment they start talking to a man.

But this isn't a way you can "act" or something you can say. It has to come from inside of you.

Make it a point to avoid the "scarcity" way of thinking at all costs.

Stay committed to your overall goal of success with women, but don't worry about success with any one woman.

There will always be another. Always.

Magnetic Mystery Man

Many women don't simply date YOU. They date a mysterious man who actually happens to walk by with your body. Thus clouding yourself in a mystery can help. If you walk in and the girl thinks "Wait a minute, who is this man??" then you have already hit the first target. "Aroused by curiosity" so to speak. You could tell things from your life, but without giving the full background just to "mysteriousify" yourself . You could say, "I saved many lives of stray cats... these poor little creatures." (only if it's true, of course) but not telling WHY. She wouldn't know whether you are a veterinarian or a fireman or whatever. Woman LIKE to be in a wonderworld with their fantasies going (= too much information spoils fantasies). 

Don't shout, don't interrupt

If you watch TV talks closely you will notice that women are nearly always interrupted by men but not vice versa. Try to be different in that regard. Do not shout, do not interrupt a woman.

Let women talk and help

Women love to talk (just think of how long they talk on the telephone). Women like to help (just think of a typical "female" job: nurse, kindergarten teacher, geriatric nurse...). Combine those attributes and you got a talk up and running by asking the woman: "Could I ask you for help? Could you tell me why/what/how/...". Ask her any question you like as long as the question is non-answerable by a simple "Yes" or "No".

Believe it or not, but maybe you have failed in your last dating attempt because you maneuvered yourself into dead-end answers. If you ask a girl "Have you been long here?" then practically anything she can answer is a dead end.  She could answer "No, not long" or "A couple of minutes" but both answers do not lead into a nice conversational flow.

Many men (since men are practical-minded) want a "clear and simple" answer. For dating purposes that kind of "questioning strategy" is absolutely wrong.
Train by simply re-phrasing some of your question. Wrong: "Do you like this place?", right: "What do you think about this place?". You get the idea. In other words: Let her TALK. (This is just a simple example and I am not telling you to ask women that question).

Or ask her something like: "What do you think is the most common flaw men have?" or "I am writing for dating-forum.com. Could you help me by telling me what feature your ideal man should have?". Let her talk for hours.

Typical "open questions" start with

bulletWhy....?
bulletHow....?
bulletWhat....?
bulletWhere/When.....?

You get the idea.

Trust barrier

Women have the fear to "open up" too much. To "invest too much emotions". To be "hurt too easily". That is a barrier you must overcome by making her TRUST you.

Imagine a world where women had more muscles than men and were taller and were known to be more aggressive. Now additionally add the need to have a real friend and

Fascinating non-answers

As a continuation of the Magnetic Mystery Man rule you can fascinate a girl by making incomplete sentences: "Hey, you know whom you remind me of? By the way I am John. Do you like this place here?"

Learn how to palm read

This is a highly interesting technique because is combines several tips on this site: Learn how to read the future from her palm:

bulletYou can hold her hand while reading.
bulletReading palms is always good for fun, smiles and a relaxed atmosphere. Women love that.
bulletYou can get sexual without actually being sexual ("You will have three children and many love affairs"). You just tell the "facts" as an "independent" third party. It will put her in a sexual mood anyway.
bulletYou get her fantasies going
bulletYou make her interested (everybody wants to know the future)
bulletYou make her feel interesting (since you even want to "read her life's destiny")
bulletYou do her a favor (since palm reading usually costs something)
bulletYou show that you are something special (not many people can read palms)
bulletYou show her that you are empathic and spiritual and non-materialistic (not many boys are esoteric-minded)
bulletYou learn a lot of things about her (since she will be telling you "Yes, this is true" or "No, I don't think so")
bulletYou show her that she can be your friend (since she already tells you her secrets)
bulletYou are surrounded by a mystery ("Hey, does this boy really know everything about me? Who is he anyway?")
bulletNearly automatically she will propose (after you have finished to read her palm) to read the palms of her girl-friends.

It takes only a palm reader book and a one or two days of reading.

One of the best methods ever

Have that something special

Would you (as a man) EVER wear those fancy fashion clothes women wear? Would you ever color your eyelids green? Would you ever walk around in tight high heels?
No!
You see, this is another example of different thinking between a woman and a man: Women love that "special something". Woman love to look attractive.
This gives you advantages if you

bulletwear a hat, neckerchief, necklace....
bulletwear new designer clothes. Even if a women is not a style-addict your new clothes will make an impression
bulletwear a, say, teddy bear with you. As stupid as it may sound, but you will get attention and women will probably ask you questions. You can start a talk by saying that you repair the teddy bear, or what the bear's name is etc

Having something "quirky" shows that you are self-confident. Self-confidence is another thing women love. Please read Be successful and self-confident.

In fact some women are so fixated to wear something special themselves that they begin to HATE the other girl on a formal party who by accident wears the same dress.

Little Things for big Love

After you established a relationship and after you decided to continue it show the woman that you love and appreciate her. You can do this by little things as buying flowers from time to time.

Close your zipper

If you see that your shirt is lurking out of your trousers then correct it. Even in front of a woman. Women do this the whole time. Even checking in a hand mirror whether they need to re-make-up. So don't stand there with an open zip and hope she won't recognize it.

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Things you need to know

Each conversation with a new woman should result in

bulletKnowing her (first) name
bulletKnowing common ground and mutualities
bulletKnowing her telephone number (plus know WHEN you can call her = the day time)
If you don't get her number you have lost. You can try to give her yours. But it is highly unreliable that she will call you back.
See also Use a business card.
bulletKnowing whether she has a boy-friend (don't bring this up until the very last minute) or if she is even married.
bulletKnowing what she dislikes (this is not that necessary, but can save you headaches)

Conversation suggestions

Here are some suggestions how you can keep the conversation starting/going:

bulletSay "Hi" and smile at her (pretty simple, isn't it?)
bulletAsk her for the time, the date, the time the bus comes etc.
bulletComment on her. Examples can be to make a note about clothes she wears or to compare her with a movie star. That shows that it's not the standard "Can I stand you a beer?"-talk
bulletCompliment her. See Make compliments.
bulletFollow up by asking her a question like: "Is there any secret behind your shiny hair?". This keeps the conversation going.
bulletTalk about food (e.g. when you meet her in a restaurant/coffee shop). This gets the senses going and creates a "stimulated" atmosphere.

 

In the end, it's up to you and the kind of woman you talk to.

 

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