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Midwest Teen Sex Show #1 Female Masturbation Added:
July 27, 2007
NyappyDinosaur (January 23, 2008 at 5:14 am)
When she said "No thanks I'm going home to masturbate and then said THANKS
MASTURBATION!. I laughed so fucking hard.
savyrappa (January 22, 2008 at 8:13 am)
This is both brilliant and highlarious! I want everyone I know to see it. Go
Midwest!
mechithead (January 21, 2008 at 5:46 am)
I masturbated during this video
SlimTwisted (January 17, 2008 at 10:14 pm)
Britney could have it my way- Large sausage with a gallon of milk ;)
Annputput (January 17, 2008 at 8:31 pm)
HAHAHHA THIS IS BILLIANT!! bill oreilly can eat it
Posted January 21, 2008 | found at The
Huffington Post
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tags: Female Masturbation, Female Sexuality, Masturbation, Mental Health, Oprah,
Sexism, Sexual Health,
Thursday, the Living section editors favorably featured the 56 seconds in which
Dr. Christiane Northrup spoke about the importance of masturbation during an
hour of Oprah devoted exclusively to issues of women's physical and mental well
being.
The responses it received revealed the anxiety female masturbation still
provokes in men and women, as indicated by the high number of comments that saw
it as fodder for jokes.
Finding humor in sexual tension isn't harmful. Sex and the City did a great
episode on masturbation in which Charlotte, who isn't pro vibrator, is urged by
her friends to try the Rabbit. At first she resists, but then becomes so
enamored of her experiences with it that she falls into an erotic haze and stops
leaving her apartment. To help her kick her growing addiction Carrie and Miranda
bang down her door and perform an intervention. In the show Charlotte isn't
maligned or debased.
By contrast, many of the responses to the Oprah clip were more mean spirited in
humor, showing it's often easier to reduce masturbation (and the women
discussing it) to a dirty joke rather than to value it as a component of female
vitality, a vitality which for many women is hard fought.
Northrup and Winfrey were performing a function that's long overdue: educating
women on the benefits of feeling sexually alive, and calling attention to
masturbation's role, biochemically and emotionally, to that end. This has been
available to women in book form, but not during daytime TV, where one can always
find an abundance of idiocy and violence.
Doctors paying attention to the quality of women's sex lives is a fairly new
dynamic. Why use humor to tear down two women imparting sexual health
information to an audience of adult women? I recall no controversy when the male
Dr. Oz imparted sexual information to an all male audience.
So far, in my Women's Realities Study, which allows women to anonymously respond
to any of the 63 questionnaires on the major themes of being female, the
Masturbation questionnaire has had the third highest response rate. It's been
outdone only by the topics Menstruation, and Relationship with Your Mother. And
almost every single woman who chose to complete this questionnaire confessed
that she did so in spite of the fact that it made her uncomfortable. These were
women from 18-53. They didn't do it because it was easy. They did it because it
was important to them.
This fall I gave a lecture on "Women and Girls, and Their Sexuality"
based on these responses, and it was supported and attended by the former Chief
Resident of New York Hospital, Cornell Weill Medical Center, now a cardiologist
there; and a well-respected pediatrician of the same hospital affiliation. After
the lecture during the Q & A, they book-ended my material with their own to
illuminate the lifelong function of this integral component of human sexuality.
The cardiologist spoke of the importance of masturbation to elderly women, many
of whom have had unsatisfying sex lives, and the pediatrician spoke of different
cultural attitudes toward children's presexual masturbation and how they can
incur shame.
In 2008 women still experience guilt and shame around masturbation. 70% of the
respondents to my study felt guilty, and 80% of them were never taught about it
as a normal aspect of human sexuality - with a surprising 4/5 of those women
being under the age of 35 and raised by mothers of the post feminist era. 88% of
them reported a strong desire to hear other women's thoughts and feelings on
masturbation, with most of them responding yes and absolutely emphasized with
one to three exclamation points.
I'll let some of the women speak for themselves on the guilt they feel, and
their desire to learn more about masturbation:
"Sometimes randomly, I'll feel a wave of guilt afterwards. I have no idea
why, because in my head and heart, I don't think it should provoke guilt."
-age 23
"Why should I feel guilt about doing something natural, that causes no harm
or bad feeling. It's relaxing and if we weren't supposed to enjoy sexual
pleasure then why do we have a clitoris?[But]Sometimes I feel weird, and then I
feel weird about feeling weird. I hate how repressed I feel sexually by feeling
uncomfortable talking about something natural." - age 24
"I hope to feel physically good during [masturbation], not much else. After
is more complicated because sometimes I feel like I just wasted time and energy
and nothing came out of it. Like I should have been doing something else,
anything else'productive'...I just feel guilty about feeling good in general,
about things that are not necessary or productive." --no age given
"[If I had a daughter I wouldn't teach her about masturbation because]I
don't know how without being a perv." -age 19
"I wish I had known I could have an orgasm right off the bat. I wish that
someone had told me it is a good way to know my body and my sensuality."
--age 40
"If my mother were an entirely different woman, I would like to have
learned from her. I wouldn't have wanted to hear specifics of her practices, but
more about masturbation being a natural way to get to know my own body."
--age 44
And lastly these poignant responses from the Relationship with Adult Girlfriends
questionnaire highlighting just two reasons women might further prioritize the
meaning of masturbation in their lives:
"[The most private thing I ever confided in an adult girlfriend was] that
I'd never had an orgasm. [The most private thing an adult girlfriend ever
confided in me was]that she didn't have sex when she was married. Was still a
virgin when she got divorced." --age 65
If we don't learn from each other, we only perpetuate the discomfort, and hand
it down to our daughters.
Comments (13)
by nov47
What the women had to say made me sad. Great post.
Reply | posted on 01/23/2008
ptillen
I'm not getting the connection between joking and anxiety. Sometimes, to
paraphrase Dr. Freud, a joke is just a joke.
Reply | posted on 01/21/2008
singermuse
We still live in an age of double standards where it has always been a given
that men will masturbate, and "nice girls" don't.To heck with that!
Everyone has the right to a fulfilling sexual expression, with or without a
partner. I think that in the past, the patriarchal powers that were might have
been afraid that if women could happily pleasure themselves then they would see
the redundancy of men except for the specific purpose of procreation. But in
reality we're getting better, and it's a good sign that people are more open
about talking about it and men are getting the hint that what makes the women in
their lives happy will make them happy too.
Reply | posted on 01/21/2008
spinstahbabe
I've been single my whole life and therefore have a lot of experience doing
"it". My current and past boyfriends have all totally dug it when I
speak so openly and shamelessly about it. Men are so cool about it---openly
acknowledging it and joking about it with their friends----why are women so
uptight about it? I think it would really help the conversation if we could come
up with a good slang term for women doing it. There are HUNDREDS for men.
Seriously, can you blame us for not wanting to discuss something that has such a
horrific name?
Reply | posted on 01/21/2008
klmebane (See profile | I'm a fan of klmebane)
double clicking the mouse...
that's the only slang term i could think of... don't care for that one too much,
though.
Reply posted on 01/21/2008
cinemaven
It boggles my mind that there are still women out there who know nothing about
their own bodies. I recently had a friend confide that she was about to enter
into her first sexual relationship since her marriage broke up 15 years ago.
She's in her late 50's and she asked me if she should get lubricant so I asked
her if she still lubricates when she masturbates. She said she hasn't done
"that" since she was a teen.
I bought her a few Nancy Fridays and a hand held shower massage... she recently
dragged another friend into a sex toys shop so I'm guessing she does
"that" now.
I bought the Dr. Oz Owners Manual and it had a passage about how often
"normal" males masturbate. I showed it to my hubby when our boys were
around and he showed it to the boys. (because hearing about it from me would
have been a fate worse than death for them) That was so different from when I
was growing up. I remember my mother telling me I could only wash my
"bottom area" with a wash cloth because it was a sin to touch it with
my hands. Thank heavens I had a few good friends who set me straight on that one
*lol*
Reply on 01/21/2008
GeologyRocks
I agree that there should be no feelings of guilt associated with these acts,
although there should be a serious discussion about how they affect the
environment in the form of natural resources and global warming. Jacuzzi jets,
hand held showerheads, and portable electric devices require energy to heat or
operate. At a time when so many of the world"s finite resources are being
consumed at an alarming rate, we should really think twice about this.
Venus, our closest planetary neighbor, is completely enveloped in a cloud of
greenhouse gas (CO2), making life as we know it impossible. Do you find it mere
coincidence that such a fate should befall the Goddess of Love?
This act is an important part of life and human sexuality, but if we could
figure out a way to transform it into a net energy producer instead of a
consumer, who knows what we could achieve as a result? What the world needs
today is something similar to the Manhattan Project; a group of selfless
individuals working at this task night and day to achieve the goal of energy
independence from oppressive petroleum producing regimes. Besides the benefits
that would come from removing funding from terrorism supporting nations, it
would also drive the people who get upset simply by hearing the name
"Masturbation" totally nuts.
Reply on 01/21/2008
hippynanainblingland
Such a natural thing, masturbation is, and so much more preferable a practice to
sharing sex with the opposite sex during adolescence when not ready, either
physically or emotionally, yet many mothers experience absolute rejection from
their children when they choose to impart information and approval, and even
encouragement, about such.
Weird is the mildest of the accusations levelled against us... the gamut runs
all the way to accusations of being sexual perverts, sexually abusing our kids.
Damned if we do, and damned if we don't. Mothers can't win no matter what.
BTW, on another tack, orgasms are an excellent remedy for restless leg syndrome,
and if you don't have a partner willing to help you when you are in need of such
a remedy, masturbation is a quick cure for such.
Blessings and peace, Hippy Nana
Reply on 01/21/2008
PeteBogs
I'm confused by one aspect of this... the part about vitality... are you saying
women fought for the right to masturbate? they've always been able to do so in
the privacy of their beds or bathrooms, just as men have... this isn't like
voting or other civil rights, for which women did have to fight...
Replyon 01/21/2008
blueraven
"Always been able to" and "told it was acceptable to" are
two different things. "Good girls don't" was applied to sexual
pleasure across the board in American and English culture for decades. The piles
of pulp novels and Victorian pornography that depict any woman who seeks
pleasure on her own terms coming to a bad end are just part of it. Fighting for
the right to realize it's OK to masturbate isn't some kind of strange construct.
As for vitality, a friend of mine who has never had an orgasm has been warned by
her gynecologist to "use it or lose it." Regular exercise of that area
is vital to keeping it in good shape, just like any other body part. It'll still
decline in some ways, but so does every system we have. It declines less rapidly
is all (male sexual performance issues caused by hormone imbalances are, like
post-menopausal frigidity, one of those things you can't control for without
other forms of intervention).
Reply on 01/21/2008
klmebane
technically they didn't have to fight for it, but there was such stigma attached
to it (and sex in general) that no one talked about it, and people that did it
were ashamed that they did....
Replyon 01/21/2008
dissolvethecorporation
Welcome to the 'hairy palm' club: Every reference to male masturbation in TV,
magazines or movies depicts men as drooling, undeserving, filthy perverts.
Reply on 01/21/2008
AdamB
There in lies the rub...pun intended. "Good" girls aren't supposed to
masturbate, and "normal" guys do at all times because they are
disgusting perverts.
Deliberate
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