Rules for one-night flingsfound at blogs.smh.com.au by Fling World best adult personalsWhen broaching the topic over wines with friends, each had a pressing tale of a one-night stand gone wrong. One quips that she got a urinary tract infection from a guy she met at a bar; another was told that she'd be called the next day, only she hasn't heard from the dude in three weeks, and the third caught crabs. Eek ... For the women wanting a quickie be warned. A recent study, carried out by Durham University and published in the journal Human Nature, found that, while men don't give two hoots if they never see the woman again, most women would only risk a one-nighter if they feel there's a chance of forming a long-term relationship. Almost half regretted it afterwards with one respondent declaring she felt "dirty and unhappy" about the whole situation. So why do so many do it? Experts have long reckoned that needing a casual fling has all got to do with a woman's cycle. During the ovulatory phase (between days 10 and 18 of the cycle), women report increased sexual desire and arousal, with a preference for short-term partners. Of course many might retort that alcohol plays a much bigger role than any bodily phases. But, either way, as dating and sex take on a new cachet, there are a slew of new rules that go hand in hand with having a booty-call buddy or one-night stand. Brave suitors (both men and women) need to adhere to the rules strongly if they're ever going to come out on top, so to speak ... Rule 1: Use protection Chances are that, if your one-night stand is willing to come home with you, they've been willing to go home with several other suitors during the course of their dating trajectory. This means that your fling has been swapping a whole lot of bodily fluids with their one-nighters, so you never know what you're going to contract. Not to mention that a third of New Yorkers have an STD, and it's enough to force you to carry a pack of condoms in your wallet for life. Rule 2: Keep it casual If you're only into it for a casual fling, keep it strictly to after hours. Lunches, coffee dates and expensive dinners can turn the simplest booty-call buddy into a desperado wanting to spill their emotions and have a relationship. As one booty call expert laments, "There are no emotions in a booty call." (She also advises avoiding cuddling, hanging out or spending the night.) Rule 3: Don't introduce them to your friends There is a chance that your booty-call buddy is actually looking for a relationship and simply using you as a stopover to domestic bliss. If you let them meet your mates, there's a chance romance might bloom, and then you're back to square one - no booty call in sight. Rule 4: Don't buy your booty-call buddy gifts The relationship should be about one thing and one thing only: late-night sex. Rule 5: Beware of the emotional booty call A relationship with a booty-call buddy who has feelings for you never ends well. Let them know from the get-go that you're not into a relationship and, if they are, they need to go elsewhere. LATEST COMMENTSFling World best adult personalsQuestion: Is it possible to have a one-night stand without feeling
terrible? Can it ever end well? What are your rules for booty calls?
Rules for a one night stand;
i feel bad about a one nighter i had recently - he is still in love with his ex - whom i also know - and i am horribly afraid that everyone is going to find out and i'm going to be in big trouble. it was a combination of too much alcohol and way too much alcohol that did it. i don't regret that it happened - there's no point to that. i just wish
i'd suggested scrabble or something instead. but yes it can be possible to have a one night stand without any problems - as long as you are both clear that's what will happen. i thought about going anonymous on this one - but hey what the hell!
I never have one night stands. If a woman has a one night stand with me, she comes back for a second night stand, a third night stand, a fourth night stand etc... It's those hypnotic orgasms on command that she can't get anywhere else that keep her coming back... mesmer
Posted by: Far Ken R Soul on July 28, 2008 2:14 PM ah so your nom de blog was not self imposed-
I LOVE one night stands! No stress... no phone calls... no "I love you" (it's been a week, for crying out loud!)... no dinners... no lingering eye contact... no enforced conversations about "where we're going"... no dirty socks living in odd places about the house... no trying to act enthused about flowers... in other words, bliss. That said, thinking that way has made me a hard biatch and my partner is the one stuck with an unromantic woman! To answer, I think one night stands can be had without adverse feelings. Don't take it so seriously (unless you were harmed, coerced to do something you don't want or don't use protection). Have fun and be safe.
I've had delightful one night stands that have been fun, invigorating. Some I've never seen again, one young man I intended to be a one night stand has now been my partner for 2 1/2 years. Oops.
Sometimes i think Sam is a bit of a degen hippie 'if it feels right then do it' mentality! Cant wait to hear peter and tara fight about this one!
Next blogmeet details?????
ah so your nom de blog was not self imposed- Posted by: corgette on July 28, 2008 2:39 PM
I haven’t had many one night stands, not many at all but I do remember my first. We slept together and then promptly passed out. I woke up the next morning to the sound of my front door closing. Many thoughts rushed through my head in this distinct order. Huh she left…..
And here we see why some women purses are the size of my breifcase.
Rules, Make it clear at day dot this is just a casual sex thing and you are not looking for a relationship. If you get the sence they want more and you hav ereason to think this is the case, end it. Just like always use protection. Fu(k well!!
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crabs? ewww that is sad.
Is it possible to have a one-night stand without feeling terrible? Can it ever end well?
from my point of view - sure :p
What are your rules for booty calls?
I've had so called 'booty buddies', but not really anything where I thought the other person was only into the sex.
Inevitably, you have to stop when the other wants more and you don't..
Yes, we should all use protection, but how many of you, in the heat of the moment, don't?